Simple Things

Sometimes we fail to realize that simple things can change someones whole day. A simple hello here or a handshake there can go along way. In today's society we are very judgmental but we shouldn't judge a book by its cover. You never know anyone's story until you take the time to talk to them. That person you see sitting alone all the time, speak to them. The person you see working alone all the time, lend a hand. Every little bit counts. You could be having a bad day yourself but just by helping someone else yours could be that much better. always remember, Don't Watch It, Stop It!

To This Day

What every victim goes through. A poem about growing up being bullied.

Do Something

The video posted here is one of my personal favorites. It was put together by a teen girl who faced bullying as well and she and her friends got together and showed how they overcame this obstacle in their life. Don't take it, do something about it!

Female Bullies

Often times when we hear the word bully our natural instinct is to think of a male. Well actually female bullying is more severe and common  than male bullying. It's very rare that a female bully is alone. Female bullies often times roam around groups and pick on the same person. They usually try to target the girls who don't wear the same size clothes as them, carry the same handbag, or girls who are just a slight bit heavier. It doesn't stop there. These females will bully you because they want your boyfriend or anything that you have but you just have to stay strong and to remember to kill them with kindness. Once they see that you won't let them ruin you, they will quit and leave you alone. The sad part is that they'll find another victim.

Warning Signs

There are many warning signs that may indicate that someone is affected by bullying—either being bullied or bullying others. Recognizing the warning signs is an important first step in taking action against bullying. Not all children who are bullied or are bullying others ask for help.
It is important to talk with children who show signs of being bullied or bullying others. These warning signs can also point to other issues or problems, such as depression or substance abuse. Talking to the child can help identify the root of the problem.

Here are few things to look for to determine whether or not someone is being bullied:

• Unexplainable injuries
• Lost or destroyed clothing, books, electronics, or jewelry
• Frequent headaches or stomach aches, feeling sick or faking illness
• Changes in eating habits, like suddenly skipping meals or binge eating. Kids may come home from school hungry because they did not eat lunch.
• Difficulty sleeping or frequent nightmares
• Declining grades, loss of interest in schoolwork, or not wanting to go to school
• Sudden loss of friends or avoidance of social situations
• Feelings of helplessness or decreased self esteem
• Self-destructive behaviors such as running away from home, harming themselves, or talking about suicidal.

I ask that you pay close attention to these signs so it can be stopped immediately.

Boys Can Be Cheerleaders Too

As you will see in this youtube clip, a boy kills himself after being bullied because he was a male cheerleader. As you see in today's society there are plenty of male cheerleaders at colleges and universities. There is no need for them to be bullied due to their choice. Not everyone is athletic and able to play the sport so they just simply cheer them on. The name calling and bullying has got to stop.